Motor City Pride weekend is here! I was talking to a bunch of friends last night and everyone is so excited - it's like we live in a different city. Last year I was in San Francisco for their Pride, and while I readily admit the level of planning and number of festivities was much greater there, the anticipation for the event in Detroit this year seems about on par with that. And if that's not progress I don't know what is.
The Pride Project was an overwhelming success. Forty-five independent businesses from Corktown, Midtown, Woodbridge, Eastern Market, New Center and the Central Business District participated, and together as the Greater Downtown Independent Merchants we raised over $7000 for Motor City Pride. The group is a sponsor at the Gold Level, the highest sponsorship level this year!
Please visit our extra special website to see all the great downtown businesses that chipped in. Visit them this weekend while you are out and about, and throughout the year! They are our friends and a fantastically supportive community, and I can't send them enough love.
OK, so onto the festivities! There is a lot going on at Hart Plaza, most notably a bunch of us city-dwellers will be hanging out at our booth in Sponsor's Row, just as you enter the festival. Stop by and say hello!
But there's also a lot going around downtown of special interest for Pride attendees as well. Here is a rundown of things you'll want to take advantage of this weekend.
FRIDAY
Visit my little contribution to downtown's alternative gay scene tonight! The very special Motor City Pride edition of Doggy Style takes place at the Park Bar from 9-2, with a painstakingly curated mix of highly entertaining music videos. All the cool kids will be there!
SATURDAY
If you head downtown for the Saturday component of Pride, it's a quick two blocks to the Grand Trunk Pub. They are always a good spot to visit and as a special extra for Pride, DJ GM (or as you may know him better, Greg Mudge, proprietor of Mudgie's Deli in Corktown) will be spinning all afternoon and evening. They have a great patio, great eats and if you are a beer lover, they have fifteen craft beers on tap. Which are also great!
Of special interest, Saturday is the date for the annual Historic Indian Village Home and Garden Tour, which is always lovely and you can hit before Pride starts Saturday afternoon. Tickets are $20 there is more info at their website. See Sunday's activities for more info on tours of the Villages!
Saturday night, another mainstay on the downtown scene, Fierce Hot Mess, is having its third anniversary party AND Official Pride Afterparty at Oslo! "Messy dance floor decadence, fierce music and hot people, converging in one place to create a distinct Detroit experience that is sure to be remembered." Our favorite dj's, Mike Trombley and Chuck Hampton (aka Gay Marvine) always play the most amazing music!
If you are looking to mix things up on Saturday night, you can also check out the Cupcake Collective at the Old Miami, where they present All OUT Detroit: A Very Special Cruise. They will be playing electro, disco, house, hip-hop and soul all night, and part of the proceeds go to benefit the Ruth Ellis Center.
SUNDAY
Sunday morning is the all-new Pride parade! It starts at Griswold north of Lafayette (think Lafayette Coney Island area) and goes down to Hart Plaza. Who knows what it will be like? Probably awesomely home-grown. I'll be walking with the "Robert M. Nelson presents a Salute to Robert M. Nelson, with Robert M. Nelson and the Detroit friends of Robert M. Nelson" float. Who is Robert M. Nelson? Find out at 11am on Sunday!
When you are at the Pride festival, make sure you check out the DJ set by Macho City's Mike Trombley at 5 on Sunday!
Wind down after Pride at Cafe D'Mongo's! Larry is opening especially for us "in honor of your parade" and I expect a lively afterparty at everyone's fave watering hole will be the perfect way to end a fun weekend. Come by for drinks and Robert M. Nelson will show you how he puts the "easy" in "speakeasy."
SPECIALS
Some of the sponsors in the Pride Program are making special offers just for Motor City Pride attendees.
Wheelhouse Detroit is located right on the riverfront, and you can rent a bike and do a little exploring. It's so fun to bike around downtown and Sunday in particular is supposed to be GORGEOUS. If you show your Pride sticker (you know, the one they give you when you enter Motor City Pride) you can get 20% off rentals, so two hours is only $10 and a full day is only $25! Those Wheelhouse girls are the best.
Avalon is giving a 10% discount off your purchase for the weekend if you tell the retail staff a piece of local or national GLBT trivia. Which will be really easy to do if you read Tim Retzloff's great op-ed in this week's excellent issue of Between the Lines. Buy cookies and bring them to us at Hart Plaza!
Inside Detroit, the downtown's unofficial chamber of commerce and home of the Detroit Segway tour, has a great retail shop inside the Welcome Center in Merchant's Row. They sell tons of unique Detroit apparel and locally-made items, and they are offering 15% off in honor of Pride weekend!
ALSO
While you are at Pride, be sure to stop by the booth for The Villages of Detroit because they are offering three FREE one-hour bus tours that leave from Hart Plaza. It won't be as in-depth as the Indian Village Home & Garden Tour on Saturday, but it will give you a great overview of all the Villages, and there will be one stop to visit a gay-owned home on the tour!
Also in the home tour category (but separate from Pride), Corktown is presenting their Historical Home & Garden Tour on Sunday from 12-5. It's not specifically for Pride but who doesn't love a home tour?
Finally, when you are at Pride, stop by the booth for the Spirit of Hope Church, where our friend Pastor Matt is running a GLBT trivia contest. Answer questions on gay politics, music, society and religion and get a chance to win a gift card from a Detroit Pride Project business!
That's all I've got for now. See you at Motor City Pride!
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Friday, June 3, 2011
Friday, November 5, 2010
The Fall Forecast
The return of Doggy Style brings up an excellent opportunity to take a look at what's going on with the alternative gay scene downtown, because there have been some changes. I'll start with the bad news.
First off, Detroit's Guerrilla Queer Bar, the long-running traveling gay bar that roamed Detroit for seven years, finally bit the dust this summer when the organizer, "Eddie Edwards," up and moved to Chicago. Guerrilla Queer Bar ran hot and cold, but when it was hot it was very very hot, and it was kind of the original alternative to the old gay bar scene in the city. "Eddie" was all of what, 22?, when he started this, and hats off to him for creating something so enjoyable and enduring in a city where the gay community just seems to become more and more disconnected all the time.
Secondly, Scott and Darren from Atlas Global Bistro have moved on to greener, western pastures as well, and with the primary proponents gone the Wednesday gay night scene there has undergone an expected shift. The later evening now involves a kind of electro-goth-dance music scene that is, while certainly not free of the gays, not the martini/wine bar scene you might be expecting. The music is actually quite good, although in my visits there a bit too loud, and most of the time you may find yourself alone at the bar since all the young'uns are outside smoking. If you are going to Atlas on a Wednesday to enjoy sophisticated libations with a mellow, conversational vibe, this is about the complete opposite of that. And I'll be honest, I have no idea what they are thinking - great concept, weird venue - but if this is your thing you will like it. Go early and you will get the Atlas bar you have come to know and love, with the caveat that gay levels there are about the same as any other night (come to think of it, not bad).
And thirdly, not that I've been a big fan, but the Detroit Eagle has closed. (EDIT: the following is hearsay, and I've heard conflicting stories) One story I've heard is that it has possibly been sold to Henry Ford Health Systems, who have some kind of master plan for the area south of the main hospital campus. It primarily seems to involve demolishing the old buildings and clearing the entire area for development yet to be revealed, Ilitch-style. The other story I've heard is that the bar is still for sale, but that one denies me the corporate overlord narrative and is less exciting. Anyway, if you want to get a last look at a bar that may or may not have delivered you some good times, now would be the time.
And let me be clear - there is no schadenfreude here. I had some great times there over the years, and I went with friends more often than I have let on. Even though each time in recent years brought new disappointments, the potential for something good remained and this fate is a crime. The last remaining full-time gay bar in the downtown area is The Woodward, which frankly isn't quite my scene, but I feel like I need to go just to make sure it doesn't become a total wasteland down here.
On to the good news. First of all, have I mentioned Doggy Style is back? OK, yes I did. Go to that on Tuesdays!
Secondly, my friend Todd has taken up the mantle of the Detroit Guerrilla Queer Bar with the new Metro Detroit Guerrilla Queer Bar. As he puts it, "Same idea, just expanded!" So I suppose that means more forays into Oakland County, and you know I'm never excited to drive in that county. But the first meet-up went well at Centaur last month so check out their page on Facebook and let's see how it goes!
Next, word has it that Fierce Hot Mess has been off the hook lately. I haven't been since I got back into town, but the buzz is things start late and burn brightly. It is now on Saturdays, and the next one is this weekend! I would probably describe the scene there in a few words: young, queer, hipster and rambunctious, but honestly I wouldn't be doing it justice. There are all types there, including middle-aged award-winning bloggers wearing Polo shirts, and if you like a dance party you will have a great time. Go and be pleasantly surprised. Get there after 11! Maybe even after 12!
Macho City had a busy summer running semi-monthly and has taken a month off, but it's back at the end of November at the R&R Saloon. Get back to where you once belonged. After a couple Macho City deejay appearances outside of their regular venue in the past month or so, I have to say I'm pretty excited to get down with them for an extended evening of sweaty fun.
And finally, I suppose I would be remiss if I didn't mention that Friday nights at D'Mongo's are getting a pretty nice mix including plenty of the downtown gays most weeks. I am a little reluctant to even bring it up, because in general it seems that the more people who know about that place the more annoying it gets (case in point: the disastrous level of suburban hipsters who showed up for a couple weeks after Larry's appearance in the Palladium boots documentary). But you guys are ok, right? God, I hope so.
Well that's it! If anything else comes up, you can count on me to let you know!
First off, Detroit's Guerrilla Queer Bar, the long-running traveling gay bar that roamed Detroit for seven years, finally bit the dust this summer when the organizer, "Eddie Edwards," up and moved to Chicago. Guerrilla Queer Bar ran hot and cold, but when it was hot it was very very hot, and it was kind of the original alternative to the old gay bar scene in the city. "Eddie" was all of what, 22?, when he started this, and hats off to him for creating something so enjoyable and enduring in a city where the gay community just seems to become more and more disconnected all the time.
Secondly, Scott and Darren from Atlas Global Bistro have moved on to greener, western pastures as well, and with the primary proponents gone the Wednesday gay night scene there has undergone an expected shift. The later evening now involves a kind of electro-goth-dance music scene that is, while certainly not free of the gays, not the martini/wine bar scene you might be expecting. The music is actually quite good, although in my visits there a bit too loud, and most of the time you may find yourself alone at the bar since all the young'uns are outside smoking. If you are going to Atlas on a Wednesday to enjoy sophisticated libations with a mellow, conversational vibe, this is about the complete opposite of that. And I'll be honest, I have no idea what they are thinking - great concept, weird venue - but if this is your thing you will like it. Go early and you will get the Atlas bar you have come to know and love, with the caveat that gay levels there are about the same as any other night (come to think of it, not bad).
And thirdly, not that I've been a big fan, but the Detroit Eagle has closed. (EDIT: the following is hearsay, and I've heard conflicting stories) One story I've heard is that it has possibly been sold to Henry Ford Health Systems, who have some kind of master plan for the area south of the main hospital campus. It primarily seems to involve demolishing the old buildings and clearing the entire area for development yet to be revealed, Ilitch-style. The other story I've heard is that the bar is still for sale, but that one denies me the corporate overlord narrative and is less exciting. Anyway, if you want to get a last look at a bar that may or may not have delivered you some good times, now would be the time.
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And let me be clear - there is no schadenfreude here. I had some great times there over the years, and I went with friends more often than I have let on. Even though each time in recent years brought new disappointments, the potential for something good remained and this fate is a crime. The last remaining full-time gay bar in the downtown area is The Woodward, which frankly isn't quite my scene, but I feel like I need to go just to make sure it doesn't become a total wasteland down here.
On to the good news. First of all, have I mentioned Doggy Style is back? OK, yes I did. Go to that on Tuesdays!
Secondly, my friend Todd has taken up the mantle of the Detroit Guerrilla Queer Bar with the new Metro Detroit Guerrilla Queer Bar. As he puts it, "Same idea, just expanded!" So I suppose that means more forays into Oakland County, and you know I'm never excited to drive in that county. But the first meet-up went well at Centaur last month so check out their page on Facebook and let's see how it goes!
Next, word has it that Fierce Hot Mess has been off the hook lately. I haven't been since I got back into town, but the buzz is things start late and burn brightly. It is now on Saturdays, and the next one is this weekend! I would probably describe the scene there in a few words: young, queer, hipster and rambunctious, but honestly I wouldn't be doing it justice. There are all types there, including middle-aged award-winning bloggers wearing Polo shirts, and if you like a dance party you will have a great time. Go and be pleasantly surprised. Get there after 11! Maybe even after 12!
Macho City had a busy summer running semi-monthly and has taken a month off, but it's back at the end of November at the R&R Saloon. Get back to where you once belonged. After a couple Macho City deejay appearances outside of their regular venue in the past month or so, I have to say I'm pretty excited to get down with them for an extended evening of sweaty fun.
And finally, I suppose I would be remiss if I didn't mention that Friday nights at D'Mongo's are getting a pretty nice mix including plenty of the downtown gays most weeks. I am a little reluctant to even bring it up, because in general it seems that the more people who know about that place the more annoying it gets (case in point: the disastrous level of suburban hipsters who showed up for a couple weeks after Larry's appearance in the Palladium boots documentary). But you guys are ok, right? God, I hope so.
Well that's it! If anything else comes up, you can count on me to let you know!
Monday, April 26, 2010
Stormy Monday
Up early this morning and these April showers are kind of fantastic. Lafayette Park is finally full-on green, the trees are almost filled in, the City has even already been out to cut the grass. Remarkably even before the management at Lafayette Towers managed to cut their lawn, but that's a different blog post.
I had to clean off the old photos from my phone on this rainy Monday morning in anticipation of a replacement, and I came a cross a couple of unused photos I took for the blog. So I'm catching up.

I had to clean off the old photos from my phone on this rainy Monday morning in anticipation of a replacement, and I came a cross a couple of unused photos I took for the blog. So I'm catching up.
Cat mugs at the Indian Village Yard Sale. I guess it was time to move on.
A late summer night on Park Avenue, heading to Cliff Bell's.
A Macho City moment: someone got a Bedazzler!
This poor unfortunate soul didn't even get the courtesy of four blocks for his wheelless chariot.
This happened in early evening in a surprisingly busy area, which will remain unnamed.
This happened in early evening in a surprisingly busy area, which will remain unnamed.
Smoke break outside the State of Michigan offices in New Center.
A picture says a thousand words.
A picture says a thousand words.

A joyful moment at the new dance monthly Private Joy, where Macho City meets
Fierce Hot Mess at Menjo's. Wrap your brain around that!
New Year's Eve at Cafe D'Mongo's Speakeasy.
Marche du Nain Rouge, a view from the rear.
What a day that turned out to be.
What a day that turned out to be.
Now our rainy Monday morning has turned sunny, but I'll leave you with this morning's rain-themed soundtrack anyway.
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